when a girl is upset, do not simply ask her what’s wrong,
because chances are, she won’t know herself.
she won’t know herself in the sense that —
she doesn’t know why she’s sad
she doesn’t know why she’s angry
she has lost all sense of individuality.
when a girl is upset, do not simply ask her what’s wrong,
just pat her back, give her a hug
don’t tell her everything will be okay,
because at that point, she’s not even sure
if that’s the truth or not.